Masculine Maternity

Midwifery is a noble profession centered on providing care and support to women during pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period. Midwives play a crucial role in ensuring the health and safety of both mothers and their babies. In Nigeria, where maternal and infant health is a top priority, midwives are at the forefront of delivering life-saving services in hospitals, clinics, and communities. What is a Midwife? A midwife is a trained healthcare professional specializing in maternal and newborn care. They are skilled in: Providing antenatal (pregnancy) care. Assisting with labor and childbirth. Offering postpartum care to help mothers recover. Educating families about maternal and child health. Midwives also focus on creating a positive birthing experience, empowering women, and promoting natural childbirth practices whenever safe and possible. Why is Midwifery Important in Nigeria? In Nigeria, maternal and child mortality rates remain a significant challenge. Midwives play an es...

When I started my journey as a midwife, one question kept coming up: “As a man, can you truly understand what women go through during pregnancy and childbirth?” At first, I wasn’t sure how to answer. But as I worked with more patients, I learned an important truth—empathy goes beyond gender. It’s not about experiencing the same pain; it’s about listening, caring, and meeting people where they are. In this post, I’ll share how empathy helps us connect with maternity patients and why it’s a skill anyone in healthcare can develop, regardless of gender. The Heart of Maternity Care: Empathy Pregnancy and childbirth are deeply emotional experiences. Each patient comes with unique concerns, fears, and expectations. While I’ll never personally experience labor pains, I can still provide comfort, reassurance, and support by putting myself in my patients’ shoes. Active Listening: One of the simplest ways to show empathy is to listen. I pay attention to every concern, whether it’s about physical ...

In the early morning light, Chuka stood by the window of the small maternity ward in Lagos, Nigeria, watching the sun rise over the bustling city. His wife, Ngozi, was resting after an exhausting night, the soft hum of the hospital monitors accompanying the rhythm of her steady breathing. It was a moment of peace, but Chuka couldn’t shake the feeling that there was more he could do. Though he had always been there for Ngozi, his involvement had been largely passive. Now, with the birth of their first child drawing near, he was realizing just how vital it was for him to take a more active role in the entire process of maternity care. The Journey of Awareness in Nigeria In many Nigerian communities, maternity care is seen as a woman’s responsibility, with men often taking a backseat. Cultural norms and long-standing traditions have led to a perception that childbirth and pregnancy are realms best left to women and medical professionals. However, as Chuka stood in the ward, he recognized ...