Masculine Maternity

A look at Nigeria’s expanding paternity‑leave policies, highlighting state initiatives and the benefits of giving fathers time off to bond with their newborns and support their partners. The story of my dad: "When our son was born, I was allowed to take only two days off work. I spent those days shuttling between hospital and home, sleep‑deprived and anxious. By the time I returned to my job, my wife was still recovering, and I felt guilty for leaving her alone. Stories like mine are common among Nigerian fathers, but things are changing. Nigeria’s federal government now grants male civil servants 14 days of paternity leave. Fathers who take this leave report feeling happier and more connected to their babies when they return to work. Some states are pushing the envelope further. Abia State has proposed three weeks of paternity leave alongside six months of maternity leave for mothers, while Kogi State recently approved a six‑month paid maternity leave and 14‑day paid paternity le...

 Compassion is often stereotyped as a “female” quality, but science shows it’s a human trait that transcends gender. Both men and women are wired for empathy and care, thanks to the way our brains and hormones work. Understanding the science of compassion reveals how it benefits individuals and society as a whole. The Science Behind Compassion 1. The Brain and Empathy: The brain’s mirror neurons help us feel what others are experiencing, enabling compassion. These neural pathways are present in everyone, regardless of gender. 2. Hormones and Care: While oxytocin, known as the “love hormone,” plays a significant role in compassion, men also produce it, especially in bonding and caregiving situations. 3. Evolutionary Roots: Compassionate behavior is hardwired in humans to promote survival. Both men and women have historically relied on nurturing and cooperation to protect their communities. Compassion Beyond Stereotypes 1. Breaking Gender Norms: Compassion is often associated with fe...